Posts Tagged ‘growth’
Your Fight Response || By Laura Zwisler, LPC
I have observed from my seat across from the human condition, that adults with particularly unjust childhoods tend to have “anger” problems. In reality, they have a handful of problematic triggers that cause them to act out whenever they feel threatened in the same way they were as a kid. From that viewpoint, their behavior is rational. From…
Read MoreTrue Responsibility is the Ability to Respond || By By Phannie Krentzman
We all have long lists of what to do to be most responsible. There are things we’ve inherited from our parents and grandparents that were dictated by their life experiences and conditions. The societies we live within tell us the most acceptable ways to parent, live, spend, save, travel, communicate, be in relationship, etc. Responsibility is…
Read MoreWhy You’re Not Broken: Reframing Symptoms as Protective Parts || By Laura Hogzett MA, LPCC, EMDR, NCC, Rev
Understanding Anxiety, Depression, and Addiction through Internal Family Systems I talk about Internal Family Systems (IFS) a lot because it works. It is more than a therapy model; it is a compassionate lens for understanding your inner world. Once you start to see your emotions, behaviors, and thoughts as different parts of you, each trying…
Read MoreKarma and Consequences || By Beth Hinnen, Certified Mindfulness and Meditation Teacher
The spiritual path is not for the hesitant. Besides the search for teachings that resonate with you, which can be quite tedious, there’s the actual practice itself. Sure, it’s helpful to have beliefs to turn to, some reassurance to give a sense of order and structure to the world. However, where the rubber meets the…
Read MoreAnte Up || By Laura Zwisler, LPC
I suspect life is run like a casino game. Casino games require that you place a bet or “ante up” before you get a chance to play. Playing is not winning. Playing is an opportunity to win. It’s also an opportunity to lose. Should you lose, you paid to lose. Should you win, you paid for the chance to win. Want…
Read MoreParadox on the Path II By Beth Hinnen, Certified Mindfulness and Meditation Teacher
There are so many ways to start on the spiritual path. For many, it might just be a sense of something missing, like a can’t-quite-put-a-finger-on-it feeling, a deep longing that can’t be articulated and yet … a person is pulled toward something that is also somewhat obtuse. On the other hand, it could be…
Read More90 Days to Reclaim Your Energy, Clarity & Joy: Your Comeback Summer Starts Now! || By Lora Cheadle JD, CHt
When life knocks the wind out of you—whether through betrayal, burnout, loss, or just sheer exhaustion—it’s easy to feel like you’ve lost your spark and will never feel like yourself again. What if this summer wasn’t about pushing harder, accepting that you’re suddenly “just too old and tired” to feel good, or pretending everything’s fine…What…
Read MoreFree to Respond || By Beth Hinnen, Certified Mindfulness and Meditation Teacher
One of the most pivotal points on my spiritual path came rather early, as I was just beginning to observe the mind and realize how much it worked on autopilot. Something would happen and instantly my mind would react, with criticism, judgement, dismissal, dismay, and a host of other reactions that seemed so normal. If…
Read MoreA Season to Pivot || By Beth Hinnen, Certified Mindfulness and Meditation Teacher
More than ever, we’re pushed to have certainty. Strong opinions, tightly held and loudly proclaimed. And then, when reality intervenes, it can be stressful. … It’s not easy to say, “I was wrong.” And so people live in stress, sticking with something that used to work longer than they’re comfortable with. Our challenges in shifting…
Read MoreWhat Do Objects in the Rearview Mirror Look Like? A Perspective on Moving On || By Rick Garcia, Certified Sex/Cannabis Coach, LMT
Something we all share is the experience of moving on. Whether it’s by our own choice or a decision made for us, it’s an inevitable part of life. Sometimes this process feels liberating and exciting. Other times, it can seem like one of the hardest challenges we’ll ever face. If you’ve been keeping up with…
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